Built for people who deserve clarity — not confusion.
Confusing relationships have one thing in common: they make you doubt yourself. You replay arguments. You wonder if you're too sensitive. You ask yourself — constantly — "Is it me?"
WasItMe was built for that moment. Not to diagnose your partner. Not to label your relationship. But to give you a clear, honest look at the patterns you're experiencing — so you can make informed decisions about your own life.
Our 25-question assessment measures five key dimensions of relationship health: emotional invalidation, control and boundaries, gaslighting and confusion, accountability, and empathy and reciprocity. Your responses are scored and compiled into a full report that gives you real insight — not vague reassurance.
This assessment does not diagnose narcissistic personality disorder or any other mental health condition. It does not label your partner. It is not therapy, legal advice, or medical advice. It is a self-reflection tool — and a serious one.
WasItMe.com is not a licensed mental health service. If you are in an unsafe situation, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or call 911. This tool is for educational use only.